Self confidence and self worth are two fo the most important qualities a man can have when it comes to dating. Really, they are the most important qualities in all aspects of life. From dating and your professional life to the way you deal with the cop who pulled you over and the jerk you’re on the phone with from the cable company.
Self worth is one of those things that if you don’t have it you want it, but are unsure how to get it.
What would your life be like if you felt incredible about yourself? Would you go sky diving or travel abroad? Would you go out more often or approach more women? The fact of the matter is if you have high enough self confidence you can do anything you want.
Do you think anyone in congress (or politics in general) has low self worth? NO. If they did they wouldn’t be good leaders or speakers!
So how can you raise your self worth? Do something crazy!
I’m serious here. Go out and do something to push your comfort zone. I would generally recommend starting small and working your way up, but that’s up to you.
If you don’t like heights – try a roller coaster. Once you can handle roller coasters go on a Power Tower type ride that drops you several stories. After that? How about bungee jumping – or hang gliding – or sky diving. Who knows, you might find out you actually like the activity after a while.
Are you seeing my point here? You want to do things you wouldn’t normally do. This is good for two reasons:
- It could introduce you to new activies and people you wouldnt have never met otherwise.
- Even if you decide you don’t like the activity, you can look back and say “Wow, if I can do that… What else am I capable of doing?”
Another way to help your self confidence is to take up a practical hobby. Think things that make you look good. Sports, martial arts, or cooking are all winners. If you take a class you have found a place for instant friends, commrodery, and maybe even dates.
Besides, women love a man who can cook! They will think it’s romantic if you offer to make them dinner (even if its just stuffed shells and a bottle of cheap wine).
So there you have it, just a couple of the ways you can raise your self worth and self confidence so you can go after the women you want and the lifestyle you deserve.
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Attract women now
Law of Attraction Dating 